So in tasker you can do some stuff, then ask the user something (with a "say" command) and based on the feedback, do something (or not do something).
Example (in tasker/phone). turn screen to low brightness, then ask user, with say command, if the sound should be turned low as well. If they say yes, then do, otherwise dont do.
How this would look for stringify.
When you get home, the lights turn on. The phone (or echo/google home) asks "should I boil the kettle", and based on your feedback, either turns on the kettle, or not
I am guessing that you would use multiple flows. or something like that. But cant quite figure out how to make this happen.
Specifically the part where the request is spoken, and it acts on your reply